Here’s the deal… a lot of women simply don’t know how to do something that every guy loves. Can you figure out what I am talking about here? Well, as I see it, the problem is that most guys don’t communicate to them what they want.
It’s often said that men are visual creatures and so they’re not so good at communicating what they want. It’s such a shame because if men just told women what they wanted, eventually, they could educate women on the art of how to pleasure them and probably bring peace and harmony in the world. I mean there is nothing more frustrating than when your wife or girlfriend is just really bad at doing that special thing for you in the sack.
I’ll share a personal anecdote to illustrate what I’m talking about… (In an upcoming post I’ll share another anecdote about how I used the Scrambler on an ex of mine!) One time, after pleasuring an ex-girlfriend of mine and giving her the best bedroom experience of her life (her words, not mine), she said she wanted to return the favor and of course I was happy to oblige.
But when she started doing what she thought I wanted her to do, I was actually horrified. Here’s what she did: She took me in her hands and then put me to her mouth. Then, with her tongue she lightly fluttered around like butterfly flapping it’s wings, and she kept on doing that, and that was it. Just a little tongue flutter, that seemed to go on and on. At first I thought she was joking, but then, to my horror, she was deadly serious. It was the worst, ever.
Anyway, I had to stop her. I couldn’t let this injustice stand. I figured, even if she got offended, at least I would be helping her in the long run, and saving the next man from an unpleasant experience in the future.
I patiently explained to her the following: A man wants to feel like the woman he is with knows what she is doing. That’s just a quirk of evolution. That means the girl needs to be trained somewhere along the way. It’s as simple as that. Instructing a woman on what to do in this area only takes a half hour or so and this sort of training will make her a pro in no time.